How to socialize?
Socializing is probably one of the most important aspects in my life. If you’re reading this then it may mean the same to you. If so, let’s do a little exercise:
Now just take one or two minutes to think about the person who you would like to be one of him/her friends. Nobody can judge you. Everybody has different type of. Just take your time and think about.
Okay, now take another one or two minutes and put yourself in him/her shoes. You fit perfectly in any kind of social events.Doesn’t matter what you talk about others listen you. You smile and others admire you. Doesn’t matter what you wear you look gorgeous. You do have a perfectly perfect self-image. Does it feel nice?
For sure it does : everybody wants to be like you or to be your friend.
You will be back to reality when you have finished reading this sentence : you’re not that person plus you are an “isolated one”. Your sweet dream become now a nightmare. I give you an important wake-up call to look at that socializing issues more seriously. You will have never ever him/her life.
However, you can plan broadly around your own life to anticipate who you want to be and how to socialize.
Quick stressegies to socialize
Build an attractive self-image : Building an attractive self-image for yourself to socialize is importnat. You’re lucky being unique, just use it! Start by thinking of your features.
Not necessarily something which will give you a chance to participate in Miss/Mr World. Or not something to set out to achieve a Guinness World Record. You do should have something simple and positive, just find it! Learn something new about yourself each step of the way and customise your character to fit your style.
Inspire People : A person with an inspirational creativity is always more demanded by others because inspiration is powerful. Keep your head high and eyes forward, share your influences that shaped who you are so others can also benefit.
Once it is done, just show off your moves to others. I am not talking about to become a narcissistic person. What I am trying to say is that, basically, do not hide your qualities to socialize. Don’t keep it to yourself. Live in the realistic world. Use both the modern communication tools and human contact. Most of the time people would like to follow you on the social media. If the circumstances allow, they would like to communicate with you as well.
Finally, and most importantly, live what you love. This is going to be the vital part of your self-image to socialize. By the way if you do need a tailor-made strategy to handle stress please contact me. I’d be glad to help you! p.s. As you may know it is free.